Ruth
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Forgiveness is something that sometimes comes hard for some of us especially when we have been emotionally scarred by the acts of others. I have had great injustices done to me in my life and carried around a lot of anger but it wasn't something that women were allowed to be-angry that is-so I hid it all the time under a smile and laughing. Went through much counseling and was given antidepressants because I turned the anger inward on myself and did things that harmed myself.
Here is a scripture about it that I like:
Luke 23:34
Jesus said, "Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing." And they divided up his clothes by casting lots.
Yes, people at times don't know what they are doing and it took me a long time to realize that. Something made them act so hurtfully. I find in forgiving them it takes a great burden off myself for one thing, I don't have to carry around all that anger inside tearing me apart little by little. It also gives them another chance in my mind and it does wonders for God, too. I don't have to associate with such people, though, and I don't have to trust them. I just "let them be" in my mind and release them from my thoughts.
Here is a scripture about it that I like:
Luke 23:34
Jesus said, "Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing." And they divided up his clothes by casting lots.
Yes, people at times don't know what they are doing and it took me a long time to realize that. Something made them act so hurtfully. I find in forgiving them it takes a great burden off myself for one thing, I don't have to carry around all that anger inside tearing me apart little by little. It also gives them another chance in my mind and it does wonders for God, too. I don't have to associate with such people, though, and I don't have to trust them. I just "let them be" in my mind and release them from my thoughts.