Thoughts on Cheating on Partners and Pedophilia?

[Naiwen]

I’m apparently a “femme fatale” because several men and guys anywhere from my age to 80-90 years old have wanted to cheat on their wives or partners with me or to have me as a side dish. Apparently, I attract also many pedophiles 50 years old and up and they’re either already married and have kids or grandkids and want to cheat on their wives with me. Many men and women seem to think it’s ok to cheat on their romantic partners and treat love frivolously and whimsically. I personally am not okay with it and have put my foot down to their attraction towards me by either blocking them online or directly rejecting them without any ceremony because it takes 2 to **** and I personally don’t swing that way on the monkey bars. Meaning that I don’t think it’s ok either for very old men to be attracted to much younger women or girls. In fact, I find it creepy, unethical, immoral and just wrong overall. I always seem to attract men already in a relationship or married wanting to stray too which puts me in a bad spot in short.

 

[Andrew]

Cheating is down right unacceptable.
I had to break it to my neighbor once that rumours and testimony were going around that his best friend was with his wife.. his best friend never denied it and hid from him which is what showed my neighbor that it's true.. his wife however did deny it and for the sake of marriage he accepted her plea.. Ever since then they are glued together and their marriage has never been better! They go to church together and he's just full of joy.. he used to party and leave her home so it's probably why their marriage began to fall apart in the first place.. I got the title of "rat" from a few people including his former beat friend.. Yup! I'm a proud rat that probably prevented a tragedy because my neighbor told me that if he would have caught them sleeping together that he would have killed him..

As for pedophiles, I was molested at as a teenager by someone in their late twenties who I thought was a good friend, im told he still does this to young boys and he is in his 40s now.. We had mutual friends and when I was in my mid 20s I was willing to forgive and forget but no.. I was drugged (im certain) and I woke up with my pants down.. I didn't want to cause a scene so I quietly left and now I have a hard time forgiving him.. I know I should and God knows that I do but I don't care to tell him he is forgiven, I just want that monster to stay away from me and leave me alone.

Btw a pedophile is someone who prey on someone underage, you might be describing a sex predator/offender if they constantly harass you or stalk you.

 

[tango]

I’m apparently a “femme fatale” because several men and guys anywhere from my age to 80-90 years old have wanted to cheat on their wives or partners with me or to have me as a side dish. Apparently, I attract also many pedophiles 50 years old and up and they’re either already married and have kids or grandkids and want to cheat on their wives with me. Many men and women seem to think it’s ok to cheat on their romantic partners and treat love frivolously and whimsically. I personally am not okay with it and have put my foot down to their attraction towards me by either blocking them online or directly rejecting them without any ceremony because it takes 2 to **** and I personally don’t swing that way on the monkey bars. Meaning that I don’t think it’s ok either for very old men to be attracted to much younger women or girls. In fact, I find it creepy, unethical, immoral and just wrong overall. I always seem to attract men already in a relationship or married wanting to stray too which puts me in a bad spot in short.

Are you sure you're talking about pedophiles here? Typically that term is used to describe someone whose primary sexual interest is in children (i.e. those under 18). A desire for a much younger adult partner might be considered distasteful by many but as long as the desire is towards an adult it isn't considered pedophilia, even if it is an 80-year-old seeking a relationship with an 18-year-old.

Personally I find it quite easy to understand older people being attracted to younger people, whether their desire is just for someone younger, or to prove they "still have it" or whatever else. I struggle to understand what the much younger person would get out of the arrangement - it's one thing to talk of scenarios where someone is a little older and more experienced but typically there doesn't seem to be much to attract someone in their 20s to someone in their 80s. Although when the magician Paul Daniels married his much younger stage assistant, she was once asked "so what attracted you to this short, bald, wrinkled, octagenarian multimillionaire?". I recall a similar situation where a Playboy model married a multimillionaire in his 80s and did very well out of the arrangement when his heart packed up a few years later.

 

[Josiah]

Are you sure you're talking about pedophiles here? Typically that term is used to describe someone whose primary sexual interest is in children (i.e. those under 18).

Correct. The word "pedeo" means child, certainly one under 18 but often (usually) one under puberty. "Phileo" mean "lover".

It's very common for men to be attracted to those younger than themselves (which may be why female "sex objects" are usually not over 80). Indeed, most men marry women younger than themselves. I'm weird... my wife is older than I am. A woman attracted to younger men is considered, well, a "cougar." But there is no social issue with a man so attracted to a woman, unless is she younger than his own daughters (and even then....). Donald Trump is 73, Melania is 50 - she is EASILY young enough to be his daughter. It would be pedophilia if she was 11.






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