Money ramblings

[Imalive]

So I took the kids on a holiday 2 years and made debts. Then I had to give my ex money and borrowed another 1500 or so, so the kids could eat w him, cause his wife always needs money and she just quit her job cuz mrs wants to play housewife. She has a filthy rich daughter who lets her babysit her kid for free and is too antisocial to pay her own mom, so she flew back and forth from Brazil from the kids money that i give to my ex. Now she cant come anymore cause he made too many debts for that. Ppl who refuse to work and live off others GRRRRRRRR. So the company said theyd help me pay off that debt w out paying rent and borrowing from them. Great. But i had to go to a budget coach who wants to call everyone and get all my financial info. Bye! I get sick and tired of being treated like a nutcase, so I said never mind, I will just pay back that company w extra rente. who freakin cares. at least they leave me alone.
end of rant

 

[Lamb]

Oh no. That sounded really invasive!! Is there any chance you could work an hour or two more each week? Is there any chance your ex's wife could repay you some money?

 

[Imalive]

Oh no. That sounded really invasive!! Is there any chance you could work an hour or two more each week? Is there any chance your ex's wife could repay you some money?

Yes I'm glad you think that too. They always want to treat me like a 3 y o who is unable to do anything.
I dont have to work more, just not give everyone what they want. I just have to learn to say no.
No in her idea my ex just gave her that cause hubby has to take care of the wife. She's just an old fashioned housewife I think who never had to care about money. Now his sister works extra hours and gives em 100 a month, so I dont have to anymore. Great! She never paid tithes anyway and he gave her lessons and everything for free for years.

 

[Lamb]

Yes, say No!! It's so hard because you want to be a good Christian and show love to everyone but the problem is you sometimes have to prioritize and your sons are worth more than your ex and his wife! By far!

 

[user1234]

I keep trying to stress it, (at least, I DID, many times) I still feel it's important.
THESE ARE PUBLIC FORUMS.
These threads are not a private conversation, nor are the posts limited to those online at the time, or members only even, but there are constantly 'guests', lurkers, creeps and spies, ..... Also ppl can come in down the line, a month, 3 months, 6 months.
TMI and too much personal information is not a good idea....I know I've gotten yelled at before for pointing it out, but I dont care...I say it bc I care, it's for your own good, and anyone else that needs to hear it.
In this day and age, you never know if an employer, a co-worker, a family member, is lurking, or gets wind from someone else.....let alone some stranger up to no good, is tracking what you say...there are some real devils out there, and wolves in sheeps clothing.

Believe me, I know, I have it firsthand ... Some real cowardly dirtballs that have hacked, harrassed, lied, gossipped, impersonated, targetted, bullied, and tried to make my life miserable.
They'll get theirs someday, the little punks, Jesus sees all, but meanwhile.....I dont say this to chastise, but please...if you gotta, PM or Msngr me, or a girlfriend you can trust...I'll be a friend and listen to your 'rant' no problem, but dont put out so much personal stuff on these public forums. You have family members to protect, too, and I love you and I care and want you to be safe. You might get mad at me for saying it again, but I only do because I care, okay?
-ok, sorry, end of my rant, too :empathy: :hug:

 

[Imalive]

It would have been better if she was a muslim terrorist. Then she would be allowed to live w her husband from our govt. and get a nice income for doing nothing and a fancy house.

 

[Imalive]

I keep trying to stress it, (at least, I DID, many times) I still feel it's important.
THESE ARE PUBLIC FORUMS.
These threads are not a private conversation, nor are the posts limited to those online at the time, or members only even, but there are constantly 'guests', lurkers, creeps and spies, ..... Also ppl can come in down the line, a month, 3 months, 6 months.
TMI and too much personal information is not a good idea....I know I've gotten yelled at before for pointing it out, but I dont care...I say it bc I care, it's for your own good, and anyone else that needs to hear it.
In this day and age, you never know if an employer, a co-worker, a family member, is lurking, or gets wind from someone else.....let alone some stranger up to no good, is tracking what you say...there are some real devils out there, and wolves in sheeps clothing.

Believe me, I know, I have it firsthand ... Some real cowardly dirtballs that have hacked, harrassed, lied, gossipped, impersonated, targetted, bullied, and tried to make my life miserable.
They'll get theirs someday, the little punks, Jesus sees all, but meanwhile.....I dont say this to chastise, but please...if you gotta, PM or Msngr me, or a girlfriend you can trust...I'll be a friend and listen to your 'rant' no problem, but dont put out so much personal stuff on these public forums. You have family members to protect, too, and I love you and I care and want you to be safe. You might get mad at me for saying it again, but I only do because I care, okay?
-ok, sorry, end of my rant, too :empathy: :hug:

Dont worry Snerf.
I once complained on cf singles that I couldnt even buy food. I just had to vent somewhere and a young guy who I had helped get rid of a bad girl, sent me a pm: oh do you need money? He seriously wanted to send me thousands. He was too good for this world. I just spent a bit too much that holiday. I said: dont just give your money to anyone. A guy on facebook too. He has all those 'friends' from all over the world. I warned him already. Watch out! Those are scammers who want your money. They are not evangelists caring for orphans. Well it took 3 years. No idea how much he gave em but now he was mad and posted: go away scammers!
Could simply have listened to me. I googled em. Oh well.

 

[user1234]

Snerf, huh? Ok, babe, just trying to be a friend looking out for you and the boys.

It would have been better if she was a muslim terrorist. Then she would be allowed to live w her husband from our govt. and get a nice income for doing nothing and a fancy house.

Oy...you SURE you're not in America?!

 

[Imalive]

Snerf, huh? Ok, babe, just trying to be a friend looking out for you and the boys.Oy...you SURE you're not in America?!

America isnt that bad. Poor ppl may marry too there. Well at least I thought so.
Anyways I just spoke to the other woman and she had no idea the budget woman was gonna ask all that, so she just arranged it herself and now I can just pay them back without interest rente whatever. Yay!

 

[user1234]

America isnt that bad. Poor ppl may marry too there. Well at least I thought so.
Anyways I just spoke to the other woman and she had no idea the budget woman was gonna ask all that, so she just arranged it herself and now I can just pay them back without interest rente whatever. Yay!

Yay! Well that's good...I will take the thousands I was about to send you and put it back in the vault, then, shall I?

Btw, I was referring to your 'muslum terrorist getting free govt handouts' comment...that's why I asked 'you're sure you're not in America?'
But nm, you didnt get it. :stups: :hug:

 

[Imalive]

Yay! Well that's good...I will take the thousands I was about to send you and put it back in the vault, then, shall I?

Btw, I was referring to your 'muslum terrorist getting free govt handouts' comment...that's why I asked 'you're sure you're not in America?'
But nm, you didnt get it. :stups: :hug:

Neh go ahead and send it. My terrorist muslim friends need some. I got that, but here its extra bad. They can get their wives come over and normal ppl not unless they do a lot of effort and earn some minimum salary.
She once came here w a flight and they sent her straight back. Go away for 3 months. Actually I should get mad at the govt. But not all the govt cuz some govt ppl now help me. Or I should get mad at myself for not praying enough for the govt or chill and buy an icecream.

 

[user1234]

Yay! Ice cream!!! Tootsie-Frootsie, please.

 

[Imalive]

Yay! Ice cream!!! Tootsie-Frootsie, please.

deliberate ignorance??? that is a contradiction in terminis.

 

[user1234]

deliberate ignorance??? that is a contradiction in terminis.

Are you sure?

 

[Imalive]

Are you sure?

http://www.duhaime.org/LegalDictionary/D/DeliberateIgnorance.aspx
Oh did not know, then you're right. It sounded so funny.