Of the list presented,
Power doesn't impress me at all
Looks impress insofar as they reveal conscientiousness and self control
Humor and Intelligence are only attractive if they are tempered by humility and love, without sacrificing integrity to these virtues.
If I were to make a judgement on what attracts me most, or influences me most - it varies but among the strongest traits are:
- Impartial kindness that knows neither race, nationality or even species.
(in contrast people who show or practice kindness only when it benefits them or their circle are not impressive to me at all. Quite the opposite).
- Honesty even when it is abrasive and cutting. I'm attracted to people who tell me truth, even truth that I may find jarring at the time.
(in stark contrast are people who get to know you enough to flatter and deceive for their own ends. Such people I detest immensely).
I didn't vote in the poll.