For the "pro-choice" folks, they are absurd. "Boy" and "Girl" are times limited exclusively to living human beings. Since they hold that what doesn't exist in the womb isn't alive and isn't human but is simply a part of the woman and so is always female (since only biological females can have an "it" in their womb). For them, there is no "boy" or "girl" until the last cell of the toe exits the birth canal. Pro-Choice people should boycott these "parties" since their whole premise is that in the womb is a full human and has human gender.
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