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Recent content by Jerlene

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    The loss of virginity.

    In your opinion, would you consider a rape victim a virgin if he or she was a virgin before the rape occurred? I'm not asking about dictionary definitions, I'm asking for your opinion. This is a controversial topic that is surprisingly split down the middle. I'm just looking to get a little more...
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    Sexual Orientation: Nature or Nurture?

    I was thinking about a study I read about years ago. The study showed that sexual orientation, specifically in men, is likely to be a biological (prenatal, in fact) occurrence. It showed that men are likelier to be gay if he has biological brothers through his mother. I thought it was...
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    Children on death row.

    Do you think children should be eligible for death row? I absolutely believe they should. If someone older did the same exact crime and the death penalty was a result of that then the child should endure the same consequences. I don't care about age here. If you're old enough to do the crime...
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    People with kids.

    If you met a lovely person and really hit it off, would it be a deal breaker for you if you found out they had a child? I personally wouldn't use that as a factour not to date someone. In fact, I would date someone if they had children, it just definitely wouldn't be something that I preferred...
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    Tinder.

    Have you ever used Tinder to find a date? How did it go for you? I would imagine it would be a lot more difficult for a good Christian to find another good Christian on a dating app, especially Tinder, but I'm sure it's possible. But how do you weed out the people that only want "one thing"...
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    My s/o is wasteful!

    My significant other is incredibly wasteful and it bothers me to no end. She'll take a bite out of something and if she doesn't like it, it goes in the trash. She makes new cups of drinks before bed, takes a couple of sips, then throws the rest down the drain the next day. It's one thing after...
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    CBD Oil

    This seems to be the newest trend. It seems like everyone and their cousin is using CBD oil or at least tried it. I've had a candy bar of it but I didn't feel any different from it. I was told it would numb me and not even that happened. Has anyone here tried using CBD oil to assist with pain...
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    Allergies

    I live with two cats which mean lots of dander. I also live in the country which means lots of dirt. My nose hasn't been at a hundred percent for years and it's incredibly frustrating. Loratadine works well when it comes to seasonal allergies. I believe the over the counter name is Claritin. You...
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    depression and the holidays

    Now that I'm older, I get depressed around the holidays. We used to have family members over at my house for every holiday and we'd make a big celebration out of it and it would last from morning to night. Now, my family barely comes together anymore. Everyone is older, everyone has their own...
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    What surgeries have you had?

    I've spent a lot of time in hospitals but never really had any surgeries. I've had oral surgeries, LOTS of them, but I don't count those as they were pretty minuscule to me. I've never broken a single bone in my body or anything. Growing up, I was envious of kids with casts. lol Everyone would...
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    Smollett charges dropped

    It was never proved without a doubt that he paid those two guys. But this just shows you that money is everything. The more money you have, the more you can get away with. I was shocked to find out that he actually got off scot-free, at least from the law. He got fired from Empire, a show he...
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    Should the rich give back?

    If a person, such as a celebrity, is successful and rich, should they have to give back to charities, communities, etc.? I see a lot of people on social media giving celebrities a hard time when they make a big purchase, saying that they should give the money they spent on X to someone more...
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    Would you buy Hitler's art?

    For monetary reasons, I absolutely would purchase his art. I wouldn't hang it in my house to admire it though. I'd most likely keep it in storage or line a buyer, or buyers, up before I even get my hands on it. But logically, it's a good investment. This could put a hefty sum of money into your...
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    What do I do about my anger?

    Standard Western techniques such as therapy does not work for me. I was once ordered by a judge to attend anger management classes and I got kicked out on my first day for being too angry. I keep taking out my anger on the people closest to me, I'm guessing because I feel comfortable enough to...
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    Funeral song?

    Even though I'm in my early thirties, I've had my funeral music picked out for years. I want to do as much as I can while I'm alive. I don't want my loved ones to have to do all of the work. It takes a lot to plan a funeral. Anyway, here is my list of funeral songs. I'll probably switch it up...
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