Stalk: to pursue obsessively and to the point of harassment
Lurk: to be in a hidden place : to wait in a secret or hidden place especially in order to do something wrong or harmful
Well, crud. Merriam Webster has both words as evil. I need to look at a new dictionary
I always thought of lurkers on message boards to be those who are just reading and afraid to approach. Not that they wanted to do something evil.
I will admit that you, Stravinsk, had something to do with the conversation but it wasn't entirely you.
This is the internet. If you post something public, WHY ON EARTH would you get so upset if someone found it later?????????? To me that is showing ignorance and naivety of that person to think that once it's hidden 5 pages back that it will forever stay hidden. Really? To that I say that he/she really needs to come to terms with how the internet works and its purpose. It stores information and guess what? People can find it!
If you don't want to have someone know something about you, don't post it publicly. Those who find out that information shouldn't automatically be accused as the bad guy.
Now if we're talking about private conversations, well, that's entirely different...still the internet and yes we shouldn't post things we don't want others to see. I'm sure we all have our secrets and our moments of stupidity. We still need to remember to not go down the wrong path and guess what? Again, it's the internet and nothing is really hidden.