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How many banned members are you expecting??? LOL
How many banned members are you expecting??? LOL
My point is that there are still those who wish there were more. And there are those (100% of those reporting) that are glad we have the rules that we have. If someone got 100% of a vote, there'd be dancing in the street.
My point is that there are still those who wish there were more. And there are those (100% of those reporting) that are glad we have the rules that we have. If someone got 100% of a vote, there'd be dancing in the street.
I was never polled. 100% reporting can be as few as 10. I wonder what a true response rate/opinion might be. But that might be beyond what advisors are willing to do elsewhere. At least CH seems interested in the opinions of those who post.
If the site is CF then it is not true that 100% of those submitting a report like the rules that exist there.
If they didn't like the rules, then they wouldn't report.
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If they didn't like the rules, then they wouldn't report.
People don't report other people because they like the rules. People will take advantage of any rule available. I could give plenty of examples but I don't wish this to be a CF bashing thread at all, nor do I wish for that to happen anywhere on this forum.
So why do people report other people? Because they see someone doing wrong and hate that wrong is one major reason. Another is because they want a member to get into trouble (spite reporting). Then you have those who report because they feel that they're being helpful by policing the site, not because they like the rules in particular but the rules are available for them to look for something to do. And then you have people who are just bored and enjoy pressing the report button.
If the rules are kept simple then the site doesn't get too complicated. It's the people who might make it complicated because they are too indoctrinated from other sites thinking that those other rules are necessary for it to thrive but that isn't the case. I myself have struggled these past 6 months while on staff as I attempt to get out of the strict rule mentality that I thought had to happen. Those who had never been to CF were actually the ones (thanks MarkFL and my CaluNET friends) to allow me to see a brand new world. With a complicated rule set you then have to have a complicated punishment and then a complicated ban set and a complicated appeals set. I'd much rather enjoy the site for what it is and not force everyone to be who I want them to be.
I already stated that the rules here are the basic rules you'll find on most other forums / message boards. That is why there is a similarity.
I agree that you'll have members on any site who act up. There are sites who will just outright ban a member.
For this site I'm glad that the rules are basic. We have low reports and one formal staff action so we're doing very well. Out of the reports we receive, those from members who were at CF still have that rule mindset, but this is not CF and some of those rules do not apply here. None of my non-CF (non staff) friends have reported anyone.
I actually had a nice conversation with two of them concerning reporting and even though we had all been on message boards for over 20 years, pressing a report button was somewhat alien to them. You see, not all users outside of CF do the constant report thing unless it is a really major issue. They let things slide or they let members handle each other within the threads. Or the offending member is ignored and not responded to. Bullies who don't get attention tend to go elsewhere.
No one is suggesting a site without any rules, yet people I've heard from in the past 8 months want a site with less stifling rules, less heavy-handedness and fairness from staff members. That comes from people who frequent all kinds of message boards.
I'll speak from my personal experiences from serving as a Moderator and later Supervisor on CF. There were quite a few people actually I heard that enjoyed having rules to cover everything. And then you had those who felt CF had way too many rules. And then you had those who agreed on both spectrums.
I suspect that in most places there comes a time when there is a power struggle between decent people who do not want power and jerks who lust for it. It is often the case that the jerks win.
I'll speak from my personal experiences from serving as a Moderator and later Supervisor on CF. There were quite a few people actually I heard that enjoyed having rules to cover everything. And then you had those who felt CF had way too many rules. And then you had those who agreed on both spectrums.