Sometimes online discussions can be brutal, especially when discussing theology. Do you use the same wording in real life as you do online when you have conversations with people?
Sometimes. It all depends on who the person is I am talking to.
I don't think forum discussion or debate can be compared to conversations you have in your daily life. Those daily life conversations are usually with someone you know who most likely is of the same background or belief.
On a Christian forum you will encounter people who aren't even Christian and who purposefully try and tear down the faith. And some of those will claim to be Christian. I know this to be true because I joined an 'atheist' forum once, but made it known I was Christian, which they allowed. Needless to say we had some volatile discussions. One of the atheist's there warned me that they go to Bible schools and colleges to learn the Christian faith so as to tear it down.
But I have encountered some like these in daily life. And the discussion gets very heated and toxic. And my wording is probably more direct and insulting if It needs to be, because I don't have to worry about getting banned. I just have to listen to the comments of people standing around and listening saying, 'see there, don't ever bring up politics or religion'.
My opinion is, I don't think the two can be compared 90% of the time.
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