Understanding sexual Attraction?

Naiwen

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As an asexual aromantic, I really don’t understand why anyone is attracted to anyone at all. Human beings all look the same to me personally. Thence why it’s a little confusing for me all this sexual and romantic attraction thingy. Can anyone please enlighten me on this? I’m truly trying my best to understand it but I just can’t see it given my sexual orientation.
 

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It's unlikely that anyone will be able to explain it in terms you'll understand. As a straight man I can't understand being attracted to other men and yet I'd hazard a guess if you were to ask a gay man he would struggle to understand being attracted to women.
 

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With all due respect, like tango, I sincerely believe your question cannot be addressed in any way that you'd find meaningful or helpful.
 
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