Terminal illness and comfort

My mom is terminally ill, she was supposed to be released to go back home and enjoy her days with family but because her oxygen supply being so great she won't be able to come home soon
Me and my sister cleaned up the whole house and decorated it for thanksgiving a little early and we were going to have a family thanksgiving sunday..
There are some real spiritual differences on how family members are reacting to her illness.. My aunt goes to Joel Osteens church in Houston and she has been really bombarding my mom with miraculous healing preaching and prayer, telling us to keep preaching to her healing scriptures and implying that our faith is weak, she says she knows that she will come out of this and we believed and prayed but after a few days she got worse but she just keeps on and my mom is exhausted by being forced to man please my aunt... I believe she needs to stop giving her false hope that if she gets worse then we weren't really believing and we thus lack faith.. :/ of course we pray for healing but what I really want is for my mom to be comforted and to not be afraid knowing that she is in God's hands.
I know she does, she even kind of hints that her sister is being a little too hokey because she just never stops, it really offended my dad because she said something about "some of us don't really believe" and my dad looked at her asked "do you really think I don't believe?", him being a Catholic she probably has been taught that Catholics aren't really believers by Joel Osteen, that really makes me mad.
I absolutely have nothing against Catholics and I consider myself apart of the Catholic faith, I would live and die a happy Catholic over being a member of a prosperity mega church.. I love my aunt but she needs to lay off of being judgmental and know when it's time to comfort instead of preach because my Mom has grown very spiritual and very close to God the past year and I don't want anyone to shake her faith at this moment.
A priest gave her her last rights this morning and she felt such comfort and relief! My heart rejoiced after my dad told me that, he said it reassured her and that she's ready whenever the time comes
This is what it's all about, the promise of everlasting life won on the cross SHOULD comfort every believer in the hour of their death.
I got to tell her a while back that she had already died with Christ crucified and was buried in his baptism and was raised a new creation and that she was sealed and not to fear death, it was through a text and she never responded to it but I wasn't meaning to scare her, it obviously didn't and I hope it gave her reassurance and comfort.
I'll get to see her tomorrow and was wondering if you all can share some comforting advice, maybe some scripture, I was reading psalms today which is such an inspiring and hope filled book that I notice my uncle nor aunt rarely mention.
I was also reading Mathew today about the angel rolling away the rock and how Jesus told mary to rejoice when she saw him again

tango said:

This is a really difficult time (not that you needed me to tell you that) - I've been there in only slightly different circumstances and frankly the garbage the likes of Joel Osteen and Bill Johnson spew out makes me want to be sick. The last thing anyone needs at a time like this is someone telling them that they lack faith, they aren't true believers, or that someone has hidden sin or some such. We are mortal and our bodies die - the reason we die is because God decreed that we would die right back in Eden after Adam and Eve ate the forbidden fruit.

Verses I like would include (some for her, some for you):

Hab 3:17-18 NKJV Though the fig tree may not blossom, Nor fruit be on the vines; Though the labor of the olive may fail, And the fields yield no food; Though the flock may be cut off from the fold, And there be no herd in the stalls— (18) Yet I will rejoice in the LORD, I will joy in the God of my salvation.
I like this verse because it suggests that even if everything has gone as badly wrong as it can, the writer will still rejoice in God and take joy.

2Ti 4:6-8 NKJV For I am already being poured out as a drink offering, and the time of my departure is at hand. (7) I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith. (8) Finally, there is laid up for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will give to me on that Day, and not to me only but also to all who have loved His appearing.
Paul describes how he has reached the end of the race, his life will soon be done and he is ready to receive his reward.

Rom 8:23 NKJV Not only that, but we also who have the firstfruits of the Spirit, even we ourselves groan within ourselves, eagerly waiting for the adoption, the redemption of our body.
God will always heal us, in a manner of speaking. Sometimes that healing takes the form of redemption of our physical body as we pass from now into eternity...

Rev 21:3-5 NKJV And I heard a loud voice from heaven saying, "Behold, the tabernacle of God is with men, and He will dwell with them, and they shall be His people. God Himself will be with them and be their God. (4) And God will wipe away every tear from their eyes; there shall be no more death, nor sorrow, nor crying. There shall be no more pain, for the former things have passed away." (5) Then He who sat on the throne said, "Behold, I make all things new." And He said to me, "Write, for these words are true and faithful."
... to the place where there really is no more death, sorrow, pain etc. and everything is made new.

1Th 4:13 NKJV But I do not want you to be ignorant, brethren, concerning those who have fallen asleep, lest you sorrow as others who have no hope.
This one surprised me at first. My mother asked for it to be included in her memorial and at first I struggled with it. But the idea isn't that we don't grieve - losing a loved one is difficult and the loss is very real. The point is that we don't grieve in the same way as those who have no hope. The hope of resurrection to the new heaven and the new earth means that death isn't the time we go from being alive to being worm food, it's the time we go from this body to our immortal body and spend the rest of eternity with God.

Joh 14:27 NKJV Peace I leave with you, My peace I give to you; not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid.
I pray that God grants you and your mother the peace that passes all human understanding over these next days.

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Thank you for these verses and personal commentary tango, these are the verses of scripture she needs to hear! My aunt and uncle just focus on healing verses that are mostly one liners and are rather useless for her knowing that the context lacks and the poetry lacks as well, no insight just a quick "be healed" line, she'd much rather be comforted by those verses you shared!

Thank you all for your advice and prayers!
My Mom is with the LORD now, she passed away this morning peacefully, we all got to say our goodbyes intimately yesterday (taking turns) and I believe it finally gave her peace to let go.