Do you prefer to blame others first?

Do you prefer to blame others first?

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Instead of taking personal responsibility for your own actions or words do you prefer to blame others first? But he flamed me first? But he started it. But look what he's posting!

Are you the type who does that?
 

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Instead of taking personal responsibility for your own actions or words do you prefer to blame others first? But he flamed me first? But he started it. But look what he's posting!

Are you the type who does that?

All Christians who blame their sin on Adam and Eve through Saul/Paul's theology also blame God through Saul/Paul's theology.

Adam: Eve gave me this fruit
Eve: The serpent deceived me

Saul/Paul - You have a sinful nature that you inherited from Adam and Eve. You have a body of death. This is all part of God's plan, for he has bound all men over to sin, and all sin and death came through the one man, Adam.

So if a person believes in this theology, then by definition the person is of the type you speak of.
 

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All Christians who blame their sin on Adam and Eve through Saul/Paul's theology also blame God through Saul/Paul's theology.

Adam: Eve gave me this fruit
Eve: The serpent deceived me

Saul/Paul - You have a sinful nature that you inherited from Adam and Eve. You have a body of death. This is all part of God's plan, for he has bound all men over to sin, and all sin and death came through the one man, Adam.

So if a person believes in this theology, then by definition the person is of the type you speak of.

See? Strav blames everyone else.
 

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You name the sin, I'm guilty.
 

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Adam started it ;)

"That woman you gave me, it was her fault" (not an exact quote)
 

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Instead of taking personal responsibility for your own actions or words do you prefer to blame others first? But he flamed me first? But he started it. But look what he's posting!

Are you the type who does that?

I think what Adam and Eve's tendency to blame others shows us that it is human nature when caught doing something you shouldn't to try and deflect blame to others or to not take responsibility. I hear it almost everyday when I have counseling sessions. She made me mad or it was my parents fault or a hundred other things. I try not to do that, but I am sure that sometimes I do.
 

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I think what Adam and Eve's tendency to blame others shows us that it is human nature when caught doing something you shouldn't to try and deflect blame to others or to not take responsibility. I hear it almost everyday when I have counseling sessions. She made me mad or it was my parents fault or a hundred other things. I try not to do that, but I am sure that sometimes I do.

Counseling is a good place for people to learn that their arguing methods are ineffective and why! People learn to not start off with "you" statements or "they". Good point on mentioning counseling!
 

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Counseling is a good place for people to learn that their arguing methods are ineffective and why! People learn to not start off with "you" statements or "they". Good point on mentioning counseling!

You can tell people that and sometimes it is like you didn't say anything. They have to be open to hearing it. They have to be open to taking responsibility. Most people aren't from what I have seen.
 

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You can tell people that and sometimes it is like you didn't say anything. They have to be open to hearing it. They have to be open to taking responsibility. Most people aren't from what I have seen.

No one likes to believe they're wrong about something.
 
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