IMO....
I think we're ALL (in various ways) noting how radically our culture has changed..... Technology has been a big part of that (cars/transportation, communications, etc.). We simply "gather" in different ways, we define community differently. Add to that an every increasing radicalization of the idea of the individual (which SADLY has engulfed also Christianity) - and we have a whole new milieu. I'm not sure what we can - or should - do about that. And it's all happened and happening so fast....
IMO, we may have a "handle" on something our culture still holds to: the value of support. AA, weight watchers, even my fitness group - they are all based on the idea of supporting and helping each other. I think that's ONE aspect of the church - a community that embraces and supports, that teaches and corrects and holds accountable. Of course, culture increasingly rejects that this has to be "in person" (witness the "community" here!). Related, is I think my generation still embraces the idea of family. Marriage is down and divorce is high - but as an IDEAL anyway, my generation still embraces this as an ideal. This is another concept of the church - as family. In fact, it's a very ancient and biblical one (think the whole bride:Bridegroom thing, the brother/sister thing). We may have some handles.....
God forgive us.
God move us.
- Josiah