Narrowing it down below God we have Romanos who built the site as the person who is in control. He is gracious enough to provide a place for fellowship and discussion and I would prefer that people treat others as they would treat God...as if they were speaking directly to Him. That would curb a lot of problems.
i believe the directive is .. treat others as you would be treated yourself ..
for me that is with uncompromising truth. i desire to be spoken to in terms of the truth of the word of God because his word is a lamp unto my feet and a light unto my path HIS word is Life ..his word became flesh .. and so i do unto others as i would have done unto me .
i do try and get in the last word too often ,i admit that openly .denying certain traits is simply being dishonest.. no point doing that when God searches out the heart and knows all there is to know .
as i often say .. -confession is mostly admitting to god what he already knows .. it is entwined in repentance because we have to admit we are going the wrong way (the way he knows about )and turn to go HiS way .